Article Originally appeared on. mymove.com Moving is a major life event that causes stress and anxiety, according to the Mayo Clinic. Managing the stress of moving includes planning, organizing, eating healthy, exercising, and asking for help. Let’s go over moving stress and how to handle moving anxiety and why moving can trigger anxiety.
The American Psychiatric Association (APA) conducted a poll that showed Americans are anxious about finances, health, and safety. Moving, already a top stressor in its own right, can trigger anxiety because it affects your finances and safety.
Try these stress-saving steps Plan and prioritize while expecting the unexpected You can’t foresee every twist and turn, but you can reduce moving stress by planning ahead for what you can control. Change your address Use USPS® to schedule your mail to begin forwarding to your new address around your move-in date. Once updated, USPS will automatically forward mail sent to your old residential address to the new one. Notify important parties (bank, doctors, etc.) of your new address. While you’re at it, order a new driver’s license with your modified address from the DMV. Many states require an updated license within 30 days. Clear your calendar Don’t set yourself up for failure through unrealistic expectations. Clear your calendar as much as humanly possible surrounding your moving date. At a bare minimum, try to request a day or two off work or other engagements so that you’re not belaboring the process. It will also help prevent you from spreading yourself too thin. Schedule your utility transition Schedule the utility and water shut-off date for your current home and start date for your new address. The best way to prevent moving stress? Arrange for your utilities and water to be activated the day before your arrival, so that you have access to what you need-without question-on move-in day. Begin the purging process Even if you plan to hire movers, moving is the perfect time to eliminate unnecessary belongings. Do you really need that “vintage” teddy bear? We’ll let you answer that. The good news? Purging can be extremely cathartic. It’s an invigorating precedent to set for your new chapter and well-being. Break up your purge into three categories: trash, donations, and selling. Throw away, or recycle, what you can’t sell or donate. Start collecting boxes Caveat to the purging process: avoid purging boxes! Boxes are one moving expense you can avoid. Salvage any you already have, and ask friends, family and colleagues to hang onto theirs. You can get free boxes at liquor stores, bookstores, on Craigslist and on Freecycle, at grocery stores, and at fast food places. All you have to do is ask. While boxes are on the brain, learning the best tips for packing can help you dodge stressful packing mistakes. Tools to help reset and rest your brain and body Moving can really take it out of you. Sometimes our bodies crash as soon as our heads hit the pillow, but other times our minds race a million miles a minute, thinking about the next step for the move. To sleep better, start with some downtime without devices; try for thirty minutes screen-free right before bed. You can also try a melatonin supplement or magnesium supplement. Some relaxation techniques can also assist with recentering yourself. Try taking a soothing bath with epsom salt; the Cleveland Clinic notes that Epsom salt can help your mind and body by relaxing your muscles, relieving pain, and relieving stress and help you feel calm. 5 free wellness apps Calm Calm has guided meditations, stories narrated by celebrities, calming music, and nature sounds. Try it for free. Access to some features costs $70 a year after a free trial of two weeks. Happify Play games on Happify to help reduce anxiety and stress while learning some stress-management. It’s free, but you can get Happify Plus for $14.95 a month with discounts on one- or two-year purchases. Headspace Headspace will help you learn how to mediate and has articles to teach you about mental health. There are also inspiring stories and mini meditations. Get two weeks for free and then it’s $69.99 a year, or get one week for free and then pay $$12.99 a month. Brain.fm This app uses music to help you improve relaxation, focus, or sleep. Brain.fm uses their own patented technology. Listen five times for free. After that, it’s $6.99 a month or $49.99 a year. Insight Timer Insight Timer claims to be the number one app for sleep, anxiety, and stress. There’s a free library with thousands of guided meditations. It’s completely free, but you can choose to access even more with their Member Plus with a 30-day free trial and $60 a year after that. Lean on your support system As with any stress, bottling it up can wear you down. Confiding in someone as a sounding board, whether it’s for advice or just to vent about moving stress, can help you release built up tension. If your household includes children, remember this move could be an intimidating time for them as well, especially if the move requires changes in schools and friends. Make sure you’re keeping the lines of communication open during the shared moving challenge. Though easier said than done, channel as much optimism as possible and avoid negative self-talk. Positive thinking can lower stress levels. How to say goodbye to your old home Parting with the home you’re moving from can contribute to your moving anxiety. But there are some ways to say goodbye to your old home to ease that mental burden. Try hosting a goodbye party to officially say farewell (free packing help, anyone?). Take photos of your home for a photo album, or commission an artist to capture your old home so you have a souvenir to hang up in your new one. Share memories with your friends and family at your party. Encourage your kids to journal or draw about this transition. Take something with you to help remind you about your favorite part of living there: some leaves from your favorite tree or the door frame where your kids’ height markers are. Lastly, leave a positive note welcoming the new residents. Give them some advice or tips that will help them with their own transition. The bottom line There are some things you can do to help prepare for your move to help reduce the moving stress and anxiety. Plan ahead, organize, and prioritize your moving checklist. Here are some resources for if things get hard for you and you’re feeling a lot of moving anxiety: Disclaimer: This content is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health providers with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. The opinions expressed here by Bergen Review Media columnists are their own, not those of Bergenreview.com.
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You may not have heard of Tubi, Pluto TV, or Kanopy—but they're the perfect cure for subscription fatigue. THE MAIN CASUALTY of the streaming wars so far has been your wallet. Netflix, Amazon, Hulu, CBS All Access, HBO Now, Apple TV+, Disney+: They all demand a monthly tithe. Toss in a live service like YouTube TV, the music app of your choice, and whatever gaming concoction suits your needs, and you're suddenly ringing up a pretty grim bill. But wait! The proliferation of streaming services has also yielded a bumper crop of free options. They're the perfect cure for subscription fatigue. The adage "you get what you pay for" does apply here to some extent. The selections generally aren't huge, and most make you watch a few ads along the way. But they're also better than you might expect, and continuing to improve. 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Many states are relaxing alcohol delivery laws as liquor stores are deemed an essential service during the pandemic. Here's how to find a service you can use in your area. Many states are relaxing alcohol delivery laws as liquor stores are deemed an essential service during the pandemic. Here's how to find a service you can use in your area. Running low on beer, wine and spirits? That's little surprise considering our current state of affairs. Maybe you've had lots of virtual happy hours over Zoom. Or perhaps you're planning to unwind from the stress of the coronavirus outbreak with a Netflix Party and an adult beverage, but you can't summon the energy to head to the store while wearing homemade face mask. Alcohol delivery is looking pretty good.You're not alone in this decision. According to research from Nielsen, online alcohol sales specifically were up 243% last week alone in the US. As lockdowns, quarantines and shelter-in-place orders keep more people indoors, limit shopping excursions and all but shutter local bars and restaurants, many are turning to other means for keeping their favorite booze in stock.A number of national delivery services, wine club services and larger regional stores are still delivering alcohol during the pandemic. Some restaurants offering takeout and delivery also offer alcoholic drinks -- though some states require you to buy food, too. (It's considered safe to order food or alcohol from restaurants and stores, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, though you can follow certain precautions to keep yourself and your delivery driver healthy.) Alcohol delivery laws vary by state, so not every service is available in every area. Many states, however, have deemed liquor stores an essential service during the pandemic, and are now allowing delivery of such beverages from restaurants and liquor stores where they may not have in the past. There are a ton of online liquor delivery services, as well as wine- and beer-of-the-month clubs. Many regional liquor stores also have delivery options. If you're looking to stock up on some booze without going out to the liquor store, here are a few services to check out. Just remember that the same rules that have always applied to alcohol apply now, more than ever: Only enjoy booze in moderation, and never drink and drive.
Everyone with a yard wants in some way or another, a means in which they could host a decent outdoor party. And you almost can’t spell outdoor home party without a grill. Making your own grill seems like a lot of work. Not necessarily! This DIY Open Grill is an easy project that requires only minimum materials and hours of build. Its reduced size makes it perfect for a DIY project at home. Don’t be fooled though, its effectiveness is at 100% and will surely fulfill any requests for a tasty barbecue. Follow the instructions provided, step by step, and only a few bricks and cement later you will have your own DIY Open Grill. Make sure this summer you will make all the grill lunches that you want. This homemade solution will save a lot of time and effort in your future outdoor events; not to mention you will become the host you always wished!
This article originally appeared on KBBonline.com It might be a dark time for the global population, but for the natural world it’s springtime. Usually this time of year has most of us feeling more energetic and productive, so why not reflect this in the heart of the home? To help people stay on top of their spring trend game while staying at home – and designing remotely – Wren Kitchens in Milford, Conn., has revealed the spring kitchen trends for 2020. Pick ‘n Mix Style Pretty pastels paired with crisp whites are the perfect combination to shake up the kitchen. Cotton candy pink is a sweet and sophisticated shade to add a pop of color to your design while subtly highlighting your fun and fashionable personality. Here Comes the Sun A burst of color will guarantee to bring the sunshine into your client’s kitchen. The bright, bold yellow with subtle orange undertones creates a real buzz to the room and leaves the space feeling fresh and vibrant. Plus, with a shade this sunny, it will provide sun all year round! Tropical Blend For the perfect pick-me-up kitchen, add a slice of citrus with zesty tones such as lemon and lime. Bright and colorful tones work exceptionally well with an ultra-modern, sleek design, and don’t forget you can make a real impact by focusing on certain areas such as islands and upper cabinets. Dusk and Dawn
Bring a warm, welcoming glow and create a real luxe look for a showstopping party kitchen. Go for gold with a contrasting profile to create a touch of luxury to your kitchen space. Inspired by natural patinas, you can bring the outside in with elements in metallic gold, copper or bronze. To complete the look, pair it with a stunning quartz worktop that will shimmer all day long, especially when the sun bounces off it. |
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